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to an Arab in greeting; it is an insult.    always use your right
hand in eating and drinking, or when offering, passing or
receiving anything.   This stems from the ancient custom of using
the left hand for sanitation purposes.

     In the Arab home, expect to be served and to eat a large
meal.    Failure to eat or drink something is an insult to the
host.    It is a compliment to the host's efforts to fill one's
plate and eat with gusto.   Remember to use only the right hand at
a traditional feast where there is no silverware.     ~owever, no
guest need feel embarrassed nor hesitate to take a fork into the
left hand at a more conventional dinner.    Be prepared for
numerous courses and servings of food.     Don't be afraid to ask
questions about what strange dishes are.    Try everything,  if
possible.   After you eat, compliment the host on the food and
wish that he always is blessed with a full table.     A common
phrase used when standing up after eating is "Al-humdu lillah wa
shukran'1  (`1Thanks and praise to God.").  Unlike convention in the
Western world, guests do not linger long after a meal or the
decision to terminate a visit.   There may be the serving of
another round of coffee or tea but then guests are expected to
take their leave.    Upon leaving, remember to shake hands and
thank the host profusely for his hospitality and good
conversation.    Do not refer specifically to the food and drink
when departing.

     When entertaining Arab visitors or guests, particularly
within their country, cater to their expected customs of
hospitality.    Invite your guests personally.   Don't mix Arabs of
different ranks or status too much.    Stay around your own status
level.    Always see to your guests' comfort and make them welcome
at any time.    The host should never urge an Arab to uncover his
head.    Don't ask if your guest would like refreshment; instead,
either ask his preference or simply serve what is available.
Serve food, even a meal, to insure your guest is not hungry.
Never give the appearance of wishing to terminate the visit,
regardless of the press of business.    Always accompany a guest
outside the door or gate upon his departure.     Shake hands and
thank him for his visit to your residence.

     When sitting with an Arab, do not point the soles of your
feet at him.    Pointing your soles at him tells him that you are
placing him under your feet,   i.e., you are equating him with
dirt.    Place your feet flat on the floor if in a chair, or fold
them under you if sitting on the floor.     Never place your feet on
furniture.

Food and Drink

     Moslems are forbidden to eat pork.     The drinking of
alcoholic beverages is also frowned upon, at least in public.
Although not all Moslems adhere to these restrictions,    it would
be insensitive to offer pork or alcohol to a Moslem.     Do not


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